A mom of two children has shared her devastating experience with her husband and father of her kids, sparking discussions online.
The woman, who chose to be anonymous on the X app via handle @Wizarab10, disclosed that her spouse has subjected her to mental abuse throughout their eight-year-long marriage.
According to her, she earns N65k monthly, whereas her husband earns N225k monthly. Despite this, he fails to provide for her and their children. Furthermore, she mentioned that he purchases items for his personal use despite living together as a family.
She revealed how she threatened to leave him but the man cared less knowing fully well that she is an Orphan and has nowhere to go to.
She, however, solicited for help from social media users, stating that she prayed everyday for death and has depression.
The post reads, “Good day sir Dickson. I want to vent about what’s going on in my life maybe your followers may have advise for me. I married 8 years ago. I have two children. A 7 year old and an almost 3 year old.”
“This marriage has been a torn in my flesh. There’s something worse than physical abuse. It is emotional/mental abuse. This marriage has shown me the folly in my belief of building with a man. It is absolute gibberish; at least for me.”
“I earn 65k monthly. It is from this money that I cater for my kids’ fees, feeding, emergency medicals, every little vital thing that a child needs. I also endeavor to send home a stipend monthly. My ‘husband’ doesn’t care about the happenings around him.”
“He doesn’t provide anything for the family. Infact, he buys stuff and hide for his personal use. If I want to generate months long malice, all I need to do is to ask this nigga money to feed the kids, all hell would be let loose. He earns 225k monthly, none of which is for the family”.
“He’s a chain smoker (wasn’t smoking when we met), a prolific drunk and buys nice things for just himself. I can’t remember the last time I bought anything ‘new’ for myself. I can’t afford something as basic as undies. I was my hair and daughter’s hair with detergent.”
Her story stirred reactions online as commenters thronged to share their thoughts via comment section. Some reactions are shown below:
realadeyemititilope said, “God will see you through, but you need to help yourself first. He is using your weaknesses as a weapon to fight you, he knew you have no where to go. Start making friends, good friends please, let someone know at your work place, have someone at your church. Please do anything to get out of that marriage because that is bondage. He will not change neither is he ready to take care of the children. Call him out let people know the kind of horror is he😒.”
femi_odion said, “Nah this kind women need assistance not those once wa no want do anything with their life and for that your husband just know this at the back of your mind nah him self him Dey do and him go suffer all the things e do for life before him go pain”.
xianedge said, “Accountability & Acceptance is the biggest thing a woman will never do🤦🏿♂️ You no see am before u marry am? He doesn’t smoke before u marry?🤣🤣 Ask if he is 15? Influence smokers start by taking 1-2puff so don’t come here and act like he was 15yrs. He smokes, unsupportive, irresponsible and inhuman before u marry am but na bigprik or luv covered ur eyes then before reality set in. Women choose rubbish as husband then complain why rubbish was acting rubbish🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️man wey no respect him mama 4ur eyes, u would be complaining why he slapped yours?🤣🤣🤣wat were u expecting. A good man is a way of life, not pretense.”